Adult Mentoring
We believe that people are much more than just mouths to feed and bodies to clothe. They are human beings with inherent dignity and capacity. Therefore, we give our clients the option of being ‘connected’ to a personal mentor.
Our mentors are trained by CVCCS to:
- Be a solid Christ-like example.
- Be a trustworthy, reliable, “listening ear.”
- Be less like a ‘boss’ and more like a consultant or friend.
- Show love and compassion.
- Only mentor/mentee pairs of the same gender are permitted.
Common mentoring myths:
“Mentors must be old.” Age is not the necessary qualification to be a good mentor; rather, maturity, stability, and a strong commitment to integrity and personal growth are cornerstone traits.
“Mentors must be perfect.” Everyone has flaws and past mistakes, mentors included! Openness about imperfection is key to a healthy mentoring relationship.
“Mentors must have all the answers.” No one person has all the answers in life. The mentor must have wisdom to offer, but also be ready and willing to tap on others for help when they encounter an issue beyond their scope.
“Mentoring is only for people with problems.” Mentoring is for people who desire personal growth and see relationship as the vehicle for that growth. If more people were mentored earlier, a lot of problems could be avoided!